
From the Rising Tide Meditation Hall at a retreat at Magnolia Grove Monastery in Batesville, Mississippi during the 2013 Nourishing Great Togetherness teaching tour. This is the third dharma talk for the 6-day retreat with the theme Healing Ourselves, Healing the World. The date is September 27, 2013.
Summary
This talk presents a wide-ranging Dharma teaching centered on mindfulness, monastic life, and the Buddhist path to freedom and happiness. It begins with a communal invocation of the Sangha, emphasizing collective breathing, chanting, and listening as one body. This opening frames the community as an organism that transcends the illusion of a separate self and dissolves the superiority, inferiority, and equality complexes that distort human relationships. The speaker then introduces the retreat context at the Bhaktmurya Grove practice center, in the Rising Tide Meditation Hall, during the fourth day of the retreat titled Healing Oneself, Healing the World. A major portion of the talk explains the monastic path for novices, aspirants, bhikshus, and bhikshunis. The speaker describes the five-year training program, the process of becoming an aspirant, the role of the Sangha and the council of monks and nuns in ordination, and the importance of learning through service. Monastic life is presented not as a career but as a life of brotherhood and sisterhood, voluntary simplicity, and continuous practice. The speaker stresses that one does not need to be fully ordained to serve; even aspirants can already embody mindfulness through the way they walk, speak, sit, and help others. The community’s structure is described as decentralized and collaborative, with the abbot serving as a representative rather than a boss. The six principles of concord are highlighted as the basis of harmony: living together, sharing precepts, speaking harmoniously, sharing resources, combining insight, and maintaining collective unity. The talk then turns to the “art of suffering” and the “art of happiness.” The speaker teaches that suffering can be transformed into compassion and understanding, and that happiness is not something to chase externally but something to cultivate skillfully. The first method is letting go. Through examples such as leaving a noisy city for the countryside, or releasing attachments to money, status, or possessions, the speaker argues that many people suffer because they cling to “cows” — a metaphor for the things they believe are necessary for survival or happiness. A story about the Buddha and a farmer who lost his cows illustrates how attachment creates suffering, while another story about Bhadya, a former governor who found peace after renouncing power and wealth, shows that freedom and safety arise when one has nothing to lose. The speaker also warns that entire societies can become trapped by ideological “cows,” such as rigid political beliefs, and suffer for decades before awakening. The second source of happiness is mindfulness. By breathing mindfully, walking mindfully, and bringing the mind home to the body, practitioners can recognize the many conditions of happiness already available in the present moment. The speaker outlines the classic exercises of mindful breathing, including awareness of in-breath and out-breath, awareness of the body, releasing tension, generating joy and happiness, recognizing painful feelings, calming mental formations, and watering wholesome seeds in consciousness. Mindfulness is described as practical, scientific, and immediately effective. Concentration, or samadhi, is presented as the next step: a focused energy that can burn away afflictions and reveal the true nature of things. Insight then dispels delusion, fear, and anger, allowing genuine joy to arise. The talk also explains the five powers: faith, diligence, mindfulness, concentration, and insight. Faith is defined not as dogma but as confidence born from direct experience. Diligence is linked to selective watering, meaning the practitioner nourishes wholesome seeds and refrains from feeding negative ones. These energies reinforce one another in a cycle that deepens practice and understanding. A substantial section is devoted to the three doors of liberation: emptiness, signlessness, and aimlessness. Emptiness is explained as interbeing rather than nothingness. A flower is empty of separate existence because it is made of non-flower elements such as sunshine, rain, soil, and time. Likewise, father and son, Buddha and practitioner, and even the Christian Trinity are used as examples of mutual interdependence. Signlessness is taught as freedom from being trapped by appearances; a cloud may become rain or ice, and a loved one may continue in another form. Aimlessness is presented as the realization that one does not need to run after Nirvana, the Kingdom of God, or Buddha nature, because these are already present in the here and now. The wave and water metaphor illustrates this: once the wave realizes it is water, it loses fear of beginning and ending. The talk concludes by encouraging listeners to stop running, wake up, and live as a Buddha in the present moment through mindful breathing and walking.
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