…a point that I think illustrates the main idea that I've been trying to communicate here. It tells of a young Chinese Scholar named Chu who with a friend went for a walk in the mountains and he and his friend came to an old monastery, an old temple…

…of the streets was a girl with her hair down, meaning she was unmarried. The married woman would have her hair bound up. And Chu, looking at this, just fell in love with that girl there in the picture. He was utterly enchanted by her and before he…