
When the Turn On Becomes a Turn Off
Esther PerelSexual preferences demand a lot of trust, intimacy, and vulnerability in relationships. This week, Esther talks with a couple who are refreshingly open and honest about their fantasies. But after 15 years of marriage, his fetish is no longer her pleasure. Esther helps them uncover the underlying emo
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Summary
This transcript is from a counseling session podcast exploring a couple's complex sexual dynamics centered on a persistent fetish and its emotional impact. The dialogue reveals their candid communication, struggles with intimacy, and efforts to balance desire, control, and emotional connection. The therapist guides them toward curiosity, exploration, and expanding intimacy beyond the fetish to enrich their relationship.
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