Am I Letting My Jealousy Ruin This?
Esther PerelJonathan
Jul 3, 20269 March 2026
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A divorced woman calls Esther to untangle a new love that brings both exhilaration and heartache. She is in a relationship with a married man whose marriage is ethically non-monogamous and finds herself caught between desire, jealousy and the longing to feel chosen. As the conversation unfolds, buri
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Hi, Esther. I'm 41 years old and I'm calling with a personally heart-wrenching case of should I stay or should I go in regard to a man I've been seeing for almost two years. He and I met on a sort of
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