Was I Used for a Visa?
Esther Perel
Jonathan
Jul 3, 202612 January 2026
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She comes to Esther reeling from the end of a five-year relationship marked by love, deceit, and manipulation. After discovering her partner’s infidelities and hearing a therapist describe him as a possible psychopath or narcissist, she struggles to understand what was real. Together, they work to u
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Hi Esther. I was in a nearly five-year life partnership with someone that I am now very concerned used me for a visa. I sponsored this person for permanent residency here in Australia but unfortunatel
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