Esther says "Run!"
Esther Perel
Jonathan
Jul 3, 202623 June 2025
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Does loving him come with a price? After four months of dating, he’s asking her to cut ties with all of her exes. Is this a sign of love and commitment—or a red flag? In this episode, Esther unpacks the deeper dynamics at play: boundaries, control, trust, and the stories we tell ourselves about loya
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A woman in a new relationship describes jealousy, possessiveness, and control, complicated by cultural differences and her partner’s demands that she cut off ex-partners. The conversation reveals a deeper asymmetry: he is married with a child, and the relationship appears built on conditions, secrecy, and emotional dependence.
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