…lead me to some further reflections. I remember some time ago reading a book by a British or scotch psychoanalyst by the name of Ian Sutti s u t t I e, called the origins of love and hate. In this book he made the interesting thesis that what's…

…profound embarrassment and try in all sorts of ways to avoid situations where we feel bound to Express or to receive attitudes of tenderness. Sutti in his book gives what he feels to be the cause of this. I don't know if this is true or not but I…