…when there's something painful going on in our experience? Well, as our mutual friend, a mutual friend of both Dick's and I, Dr. Stephen Porges would point out that a different part of the nervous system is activated. And we go into a healing mode, a…

…being the stress absorbers of their larger families. And there's more stress than there used to be because there's less connection. Dr. Stephen Porges, who has done brilliant work on the nervous system, he points out that safety is not a question of a…